Yeah, I think one of the really HARD parts of this learning . . . and one I clearly haven't got a good handle on even yet . . . is to be able to be a graceful follower, and instantly grasp that it's time to take charge. Take charge too forcefully or at the wrong moment, and you make things worse; fail to take control, and you may allow the spiral into the incident pit. What's more, when something works is somewhat personality-dependent. One of the things I failed to do, I didn't do because if somebody did it to me, it would have made things much worse. I talked to Claudette, and she instantly agreed -- but to the instructor, it was the right intervention. You have to know your people.
There are people I dive with that I know really well -- how they react, how they think, and what they say afterward. This team wasn't that clued in to one another's strengths and weaknesses, and how each of us would react. You can easily see why, if you are going to do really challenging dives, where a lot is on the line, doing it with people you can really read and predict is an important part of feeling really comfortable.
And once again, this weekend of diving drove home that diving is about 75% mental, and nerves make a mess of anybody's skills
